Cao Cao also had close friends, and Guan Gong also had rivals.
This letter comes a bit earlier than expected; it was originally planned to thank everyone only after reaching over 100,000 fans for the continuous support. However, due to unexpected feedback on the previous article, it forced me to transform negative emotions into a positive output. I still remember my terrible temper before coming of age, especially towards my family.
The last time I lost my temper is still fresh in my memory: at that time, my parents may have just asked a gentle question, and in anger, I threw all the books in my hand heavily onto a pile of goods. Since my family was running a small business at that time, this action basically scared away the customers who came to shop. After I calmed down, I couldn't help but reflect on why my temper was so bad. Believing in the saying, "There is a Gold House in the books," I went to the bookstore and happened to see a book called 'Life Happiness, Every Page is Like a Puzzle.' The book is filled with uplifting stories, but the conclusion of one story shook me: 'Life is limited, why should bad temper be reserved for those we love the most, while good temper is saved for those we may only meet once?'
In this world, everyone's time and energy are limited, and the combination of the two is the power of focus. If focus is placed on negative people and thoughts, the result is negative energy; in contrast, if attention is placed on those we love and who love us, the outcome is encouragement. Since the rise of the online world, many mistakenly believe...