I have a friend who just got married into luxury. A few mont...

I have a friend who just got married into luxury. A few months after marrying her beau, she soon discovered a problem. It's not about fighting over a family, a misfit mother-in-law, or an old public lurch. Instead, her wife told her not to work. Not working, being able to become a little grandmother is not the dream of many people? But being a friend was a career strongman before she became someone else's wife. He is also a positive person due to a brilliant track record in his career. She will be attracted to her current husband and will eventually bond. A wife asking her not to work is tantamount to letting her cut off one of her own arms. Of course, the wife was not very forceful in telling her not to work. It's just that every sentence, every word reveals the same message: “How are you trying to make money without adding more wealth to this house?” My wife said it was not wrong. Even if my friends make a billion today, my father's wealth is calculated in billions every year. One billion, it seems, contributes less. But it sounds like a lot of trouble... My wife, that's all. But most disappointing to her friends is that her husband has recently started hinting that she doesn't want to work. Since her friend's job often required her to travel abroad, her husband asked her, “Would you like to change a job where you don't have to fly all the time?” Aw, marry a luxury like a sea. All surfaces look bright and shiny with a level upgrade, with a fateful price tag behind it, including your freedom. Family and business have been difficult since ancient times. Now my friend, she has only two choices: 1. #接受現實2. #改變自己這兩者看起來都是要她放棄事業。 BUT ACCEPTING REALITY IS DIFFERENT FROM CHANGING YOURSELF: ACCEPTING REALITY IS PASSIVE, AND YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT GIVING UP YOUR CAREER NO MATTER HOW HAPPY YOU ARE. Changing yourself is being proactive, actively changing your mindset, accepting reality. As required by your husband, do not do jobs that require frequent trips abroad and look for a job that you can do locally. Otherwise, it is certainly another achievement to see the teacher as a career, to cultivate the children of the future into excellent ones. In my opinion, no matter what choice she makes, there is no problem. The main thing is to see if her current values match the situation. Whether you want to continue killing in the workplace, or stay safe and quiet with your husband's children, such life choices are good. But I keep telling my friends. Even if you choose which side is good, there is one thing that you absolutely cannot give up. “#繼續學習， #不要放棄自我成長」我看過很多嫁了人而社會脫軌的女孩，覺得很可惜。 Because they have long focused on their families, children, and husbands, they are unable to talk to their husbands, do not know the latest news, and cannot understand the development of society today. Over time, I came alive and became an outsider. In fact, learning to live after marriage does not conflict. It is as if reading a book does not necessarily make the same sense as it is for students to do so. Whether it's cooking, flower arranging, or knitting, it's a learning experience. Whether or not we enter the Grand Hotel today, remember,” #可以借力， #但不能依服； #可以付出， #但不是因為順從」因為婚姻最好的狀態，應該是: “#兩個人很好， #一個人也不差」任何關係的本質，都是自己和自己的關係。 As long as you get better, your marriage will get better. Because mom is more than just a mom, she has to be herself first.